Yesterday I spoke about 2/1/2013 the day that changed my life well to pick up were I left off,My Brother has died and S/O has cancer.I'll do my best to explain this first of all He has Bladder cancer and as other Cancers it depends on what type?, how far along? what stage ? and treatment plan Well it was horrible finding a Dr, then the Dr we had was just awful didn't explain things that good and no bed side manner. From the moment s/0 started his bcg treatments he always felt This Dr is rough, does not explain. his equipment seems old, things don't seem sterile . But, we didnt know what we were doing and how were we to know that as time went by we heard more and more negative comments about this Dr but I guess thats another story. S/O started BCG treatments ,Intravesical Therapy click the underscored highlighted for a definition, He went thru that for 1 year after the death of My Brother it was hard because I was in mourning for my Brother and I wanted to be left alone I was just sad and feeling lost I probably wasn't as supportive as I should of been but I couldn't help it. The first round didn't work every week he had a catheter inserted into his penis with the chemo or BCG which ever you prefer to call it .We were referred to surgeons now s/o did loose weight but was lucky with side effects they were minor.
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That morning s/0 and I were going to our appt for our fasting labs for our diabetes,after we did that we stopped for breakfast we were starving. We just sat down and ordered our breakfast,when I got a call from my Sister-In-Law she was crying I couldn't make sense out of what she was saying she was crying and saying emt's are here they are working on David , I was saying what? what's wrong? she said he wont wake up,they have been working on him for a few minutes now. A million thoughts somehow went thru my head I gotta get there I promised him if
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